Ways to Tell if You and Your Date Will Click

Something is disheartening that is taking place in the dating world these days. We go out on dates, have a fantastic time, but never hear from the other person ever again. As a result, we feel frustrated, inadequate, and confused. We have no idea why the date was not successful, which does nothing to make things any better. In the end, we assume that we either did or said something that our date did not like. In error, we blame ourselves.

Is this something that has happened to you? There is a way to tell if your next first date will be successful and whether you and this person will hook up again in the future. Just watch for the telltale signs. If you see these particular signs while on your first date, then you can tell whether or not you and your date are bonding and whether or not there is a possible future.

Ways to Tell if You and Your Date Will Click 

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Pay Attention to Your Date’s Body Language

Is he interacting with you and paying attention to your conversation? Is he making eye contact with you? If he is genuinely interested in you, he will give you eye contact while you are speaking. As they say, the eyes can show you everything about a person’s whole being. Your date’s eyes will tell you all that you need to know about his thoughts and emotions.

See if Your Date Is Copying Your Gestures

This might seem like a small thing, but it has a lot of importance. By habit, this is something that a person will unconsciously do when he is pleased with anything that he finds appealing or extremely interesting. The more times your date seems to mirror your actions, the more that he is attracted to you at that moment.

Let Your Date Lean Forward and Get Too Close to You

Don’t be intimidated by this? It is an excellent sign that he finds you attractive and wants to get to know you better. It is also a good sign if he nods or tilts his head in your direction while you are speaking. These are all positive signs that indicate that the date is going very well. However, on the flip sign, if he sits there folding his arms all during the date, he is not happy at all. This is a clear sign that he has no interest in you or in what you have to say. The date is a bust, and there is no future for the two of you.

Understand That There Is a Big Difference Between Honest Flirting and Staying on the Date to Save Face When It Comes to Dating

If you know how to tell the difference between the two extremes, you can tell if the date is going well. If you see that this person gives you eye contact, loves to get close and touch, smiles at you, and likes what you say, then these are all signs that there will be a second date.

Recognize People Flirt in Many Different Ways

Your date might fidget with his clothing or hair, trying to make his appearance better. Women tend to cross and uncross their legs a lot, whereas men will stick out their chests.

Continue to Watch for Signs at the End of the Date Too

Please pay attention to your date’s behavior when it is time to go.  If he walks with you to the door as opposed to just letting you off at the curb, then he will most likely want to see you again. He is being respectful and wants to make sure that you are safe. This is a perfect sign that he is concerned about your well being.  

All in all, checking for all of these signs can make the difference between having a fantastic date with a promising future or just be dumped for the next best thing that comes along. 💖