Five Characteristics That Men Fall In Love With
By Clayton Max, Author of Infatuation Scripts [LINK HERE]
"A girl must be 2 things: stylish and also fabulous ."-- Coco Chanel
Whether you're seeking a long-lasting partner , or already have one, it pays to have the right relationship habits .
A crucial thing to remember about guys is that they don't necessarily know how to convey what they're looking for in a relationship .
A lot of guys never exactly learned about expressing their emotions while growing up . So it can be difficult for them to let their partner know about theiremotional and physical desires .
And this brings about all sorts of misunderstandings and also unfulfilled expectations, which can create roadblocks in a relationship .
The good news is , I'm here to offer you an inside view to how guys think . Drawing from my own experienceand from helping thousands of men , here are my Top 5 Tips To Make A Man Crazy About You :
# 1: Play Hard to Get
Ok, this could sound like a cliche , but listen up.
Many women (and guys !) try to create attraction by putting on a distant-but- I-might-be-attracted -to-you act.
Also , these women may wait a few hours before responding to messages to avoid looking desperate . Even worse, maybe they'll act like they've got better things to do , expecting it'll make the other person more interested in them.
However this approach often backfires .
Doing this sends mixed messages - and if it keeps happening he'll eventually get sick of it .
It's perfectly natural to show interest in a man if you're curious , and there's no reason to mess each other around like this .
Instead , take a slightly different approach -- one built on authenticityand builds interest .
Send him signs that you like him, and be enthusiastic when you're talking . Experts assert that a man begins falling in love with a woman once they recognize that they are wanted.
As for "playing hard to get" , it's about actually staying busy.
It's far better to be to be "busy" or "engaged" with all of life. You've got your job , social life, leisure activities and other interests that make you well-rounded and unique person .
If living life means that you're unavailable from time to time , that's just fine .
Richard Wiseman, who wrote the book "59 Seconds: Change Your Life in Under a Minute", did some research on thisidea .
He concluded that people who were hard to get gave the impression that they're a scarce resource . However , they LIKEWISE had to be enthusiastic toward the other person to be attractive .
In this way , it placed the subject in a more well rounded and attractive light.
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# 2: Rock His World
In short , you need to create strong emotions within him while he's with you . He'll then link those feelings to you, which develops that romantic spark .
In an MIT research study , behavior researchers identified that people have an automatic reaction of projecting their feelings from one experience the next.
What does this imply ?
For example , if you nearly had a car crash on the way to work, you would carry those negative feelings with you into the office . That previous, unrelated experience would be with you during the remainder of your day .
Some call this "psychological misattribution" or "psychological leakage " - our natural tendency to attach intense emotions to another person or situation , even if they had little to do with it.
Also , this means that becoming physically aroused can quickly convert into a sexual attraction. So, if you can find ways to keep your time together exciting for him - like going on an outdoor adventure or something physically intensive -- then he'll attach those feelings onto you.
# 3: Encourage His Jokes
Admittedly , many women reacted to this recommendation with a raised eyebrow .
But hear me out - this can be a game-changer in your connection .
First of all , I'm not telling you to roll on the floor in hysterics at every one of his awful "dad-jokes".
But feel free to show it when his efforts to amuse you succeed .
Studies show that humor is a big factor in romantic and sexual attraction . As you already know, women like men that are funny or clever as itsignifies intellect (which is an attractive characteristic ).
Researchers from Westfield State College, University of Western Ontario, and McMaster University state that "men preferred those who were receptive to their own humor, particularly for sexual relationships."
It's not just that he's looking to be "that funny guy" ... but more about a man's need to be valued by his partner .
Believe me , I know plenty of men who have "appreciation" as one of their essentials in a relationship. So, valuing his nuances and humor is a good step in that direction .
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# 4: Social Value
Numerous studies show that spending time with a core group of friends boosts appeal to a new love interest .
As an example , there's research from Tilburg University in the Netherlands and the University of California that both identified what's called "The Cheerleader Effect."
"The Cheerleader Effect" study basically states that a person will see you you as higher-value once you're seen in a group.
On the surface , you could think it's because you'll seem more sociable or friendly .This makes you attractive without looking like you're trying too much .
But there's one more angle to it. You see, humans have a habit of categorizing individual elements (like shapes, objects and people) into basic groups .
This is mostly a hardwired survival characteristic to not concentrate only on one thing - and rather take in the whole picture (similar to peripheral vision) . And this impulse spills over to an individual 's social life as well .
So for a tip to boost your allure , you can change your Facebook (and online dating) profile photo to one where you're having fun with a group of friends . Just make sure it's obvious who you are in the picture so you don't disappear in a sea of faces!
If you're thinking about meeting someone new in a bar or an event , get your friends to come along too . Social proof is a real attraction-enhancer , so make the most of it .
# 5: Explore His Sensual Side
No surprise here. Men , just like women, crave sexual intimacy .
But you'd be stunned -- and even downright concerned -- how many women are struggling in this area .
A lot of them take for granted the power of using their feminine charm to win a guy over .
And no, I'm not saying you need to act out a scene from an adult movie to excite him .
I'm telling you to get familiar with a guy's desires.
For example , women underestimate the power of a gentle touch.
Most guys go their entire lives not experiencing the pure pleasure of a caring pat on the back, a hug, or other kinds of love .
Women, on the other hand, tend to experience this regularly .
So utilizing body language is an excellent method to ignite his senses -- whether it's brushing against his arm or leg "unintentionally " ...
... or placing your hand on his arm for a moment .
Bear in mind , men enjoy being teased , and the seductive experience of the "slow burn."
And of course , men love variety when it comes to sex . So try to to change things up from time to time .
Better yet, go ahead and discuss any fantasies or desires you may have . Maybe there's something he's curious to try, and maybe you have your own burning fantasies .
One final tip - there's another characteristic I forgot to mention earlier, yet it's a real game changer .
Research from Rutgers University found a distinct psychological trait in guys known as an "psychological tripwire."
When you understand how this works - and how to utilize it (which is extremely simple ) ...
... your guy will quickly get in a state of intense infatuation.
It's like a splinter in his brain , and he'll be incapable of thinking about any other women in a romantic way -- except YOU.
There's a free video presentation teaching this in SHOCKING detail, so ensure you're sitting down before watching it:
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