Study Reveals :
Why Men Naturally Overlook Particular Women
(and the scientific reason they choose others)
Over the years, Tanya had always been told she was "incredible ", "A great catch ", "gorgeous ", and "total girlfriend material" by the men she'd dated ...
However all those reassuring words actually made her feel bad .
Because the cold, hard truth is :.
Although they SAID she was fantastic , they All refused to CHOOSE her.
To Tanya, this indicated that those men were either not telling the truth , or there was something else she was doing wrong : something so undesirable that they couldn't bring themselves to stick with her.
"It made me really feel damaged " she explained to us . "Why am I never good enough for the ones I deeply want ?".
"I just want someone to pick me".
The question of what makes men select a specific type of partner while not feeling it with others has plagued women for all of history .
And science may finally have the answer .
According to new research released in the scientific journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men don't choose their relationships based on "rational reasons".
Relationship and dating expert Clayton Max told us, "It's not about checking all the criteria on his checklist of what makes his 'dream woman '. And a woman can't persuade a man to want to be with her".
In fact , Max states , when a woman attempts to convince a man , pressure him , or show him how amazing she is, nine times out of 10 it's going to backfire, because these behaviors actually are the exact opposite of what makes a guy confidently sure she is for him.
"The reality is" according to Max, "The choice for guys comes down to one specific thing :.
They pick women who trigger the powerful feeling of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have found that infatuation originates from a primitive instinct deep within the mind ...
Either it's switched on or it's switched off .
When a man's infatuation response is switched ON , it doesn't matter if a potential mate has any of the characteristics that he wanted .
A woman could be entirely mis-matched for him, but he'll make time for her. He'll move cities to be with her . He will do whatever is needed to be a couple .
This is because the Infatuation Instinct literally causes him to ignore everything else other than her .
So how does a woman trigger a guy's Infatuation Instinct ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire for her he's willing to do what ever it takes to convince her just how much he wants her?
Check out the Comprehensive Video to found out .
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