Scientific Research Explains :
Why Men Reject Specific Women
(and the surprising reason they choose others)
Over the years, Tanya had been told she was "fantastic ", "beautiful inside and out ", "inspiring ", and "dream sweetheart material" by the guys she'd been with ...
But all their kind and reassuring words just made her feel bad .
You see the unfortunate truth was :.
Regardless of how great they SAID she was, they still weren't CHOOSING to build a future with her.
To Tanya, this showed that these guys were all either lying , or there was something else wrong with her : something so undesirable that they could not bring themselves to continue with her.
"It made me really feel unworthy " she said . "Why am I never sufficient for the men I feel a connection with ?".
"I just want somebody to want me".
This fundamental question of what makes men see a future with a specific type of partner while overlooking others has plagued women for all of history .
Fortunately, science might finally have an answer to this question .
According to new research findings published in the scientific journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men don't pick their relationships for "rational reasons".
As dating and relationship researcher Clayton Max explained to us, "It's not about ticking the criteria on a man's list of a 'dream woman '. A woman can't convince men to want to be with her".
From my experience , Max says , when a woman tries to convince a guy , put pressure on him , or show him just how incredible she is, 9 times out of 10 it will backfire, as behaviors like this are the exact opposite of what makes a man confidently sure a certain woman is for him.
"The truth is" according to Max, "For men , the decision process comes down to one specific thing :.
They pick partners who set off the powerful feeling of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have actually discovered that infatuation originates from a subconscious instinct deep within the brain ...
When a man's infatuation impulse is switched ON , it makes no difference if a woman has any of the criteria that he wanted .
They could be entirely 'incompatible' according to his criteria , yet he'll make time for her. He'll move cities for her . He'll change professions for her if needed .
Because the Infatuation Impulse literally TURNS OFF the part of a man's brain responsible for anything aside from being with her .
So exactly how does a woman turn on a guy's Infatuation Impulse ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire for her he's ready to do what ever it takes to show her how much he wants her?
Check out the In-depth Video to found out .
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